Ngaloo ndlela abafazi babesoloko bezivumela ukuba bohlwaywe kwaye baqeqeshelwe ukwenza imigilingwane. Ukuba wayeswele ngesondo kunye nokuqala kubudlelwane, yiloo nto kanye awayifumana kumyeni wakhe. Umzimba wakhe otyebileyo uvuselela umyeni wakhe, uvumela yena kunye neqabane lakhe ukuba bafumane inzuzo ephezulu. Ithoyizi isetyenziswa kunye ngaphezu kwesinye, ndiyacinga. Ukubukela okuthandwayo, ubudlelwane obuhle kunye ne-twist phakathi kwesi sibini.
Kwaye usisi omhle oneenwele ezimnyama, kwaye ulala kwindawo epholileyo. Akuzange kufuneke athethe ixesha elide nomnakwabo, kucaca ukuba uyakuthanda uyolo lwesini. Kuyingozi ukutyelela umzalwana onjalo, kuyafaneleka ukugoba into ethile, kwaye ngokukhawuleza ipiston yakhe ifakwe ngasemva kwangoko. Usisi wakhe mhle kwaye uyathobela, ubhuti wakhe unethamsanqa ukuba nosisi onjalo. Kwaye kufanelekile, uhlala ekhona kuye.
¶¶ Ndazikhupha zonke izinto zam zokudlala ¶ Kwakufanele undibonile xa isithandwa sam sibuya emsebenzini ¶¶)